Tuesday, 10 June 2014

Who inspires (nags) me to write?

June 10

What (or who) inspires you to write the most?

The answer to this question is a fine line between nagging and inspiring. And by nagging, OF COURSE I mean encouraging.

That's what I'm taking for this question anyway. I mean, I've spoken about other writers that inspire me, plus I've spoken about the inspirations for my characters, and I'm taking this question to mean who supports me through my writing. Encouragement is inspiration in this case.

If we're not talking encouraging inspiration, the answer is me. The stories in my brain inspire me to write. I can take credit for that. I will take credit for that.

Getting it onto paper though - that takes encouragement and support. I have LOTS of that.

I've had tons of encouragement and support since writing the novel. People who helped edit, people who were my test readers, friends and family who haven't read it, but have more confidence that I'll get published than I do myself.

There are two people who have been encouraging me from the start.

Actually, Nehal has been encouraging me since before the novel. It feels like she's been encouraging me since the day she met me. I used to do a little blog while I was living in Korea about funny things that happened or about my life in general. I didn't take it seriously, and I'm pretty sure I ALWAYS forgot to check for mistakes, but I did it to keep friends and family in my life loop. Even then, when it was the only writing I did, she kept reminding me that what I was blogging would make excellent short stories.

Nehal has now been in my last three writing prompt questions posts. Obviously I pick great friends!

She sends me links for writing, she encourages my writing, and she REMINDS me that I should be writing.

In fact, before she met Clint, I'm pretty sure that's what sold her on him. The fact that he nagged me to write.

Which brings me to my next writing inspirer.

C. Plain and simple, he constantly asked me how my writing was going, if I had written, and how many pages.

I had started writing my novel before I met him, and probably didn't tell him right away. (I didn't really tell anybody until I was about 100 pages in). He found out before that, obviously. I just mean, I didn't share this information on our first date. I don't remember when we spoke about it. The second he knew about it, he was asking how I was doing. I remember when he was back in Ontario, and I would tell him about my day. His response would sometimes be, "But, did you do any writing?" I've never had that before.

He was also the first person to read it. He asked to read it before I had a lot done, and it was honestly, one of the scariest things I've done. I can send it to Nehal, no problem. She gives great feedback, and usually has positive responses. Sending it to C was harder. I know he's honest (not that Nehal isn't -he's just more blunt), and I know this wasn't his type of writing. It was nerve wracking, and I was pretty happy when I got a positive response from him.

I've never really had a boyfriend read and take seriously my writings - especially fiction. In fact, the first one (from A LONG TIME AGO) would read my short stories and have nothing but negative comments and changes. I always kind of thought, it wasn't so much trying to help as trying to influence and pretend to be helping. I might be wrong. 

However, the rare time C suggested a change, I did trust what he was saying, because he had my best interest in mind, and didn't often try to change anything. He also loves to read which makes me incredibly happy.

Those two are my inspirations to keep me writing.

If you've learned ANYTHING from this post, it's that nagging works. (or bribes).

Also: wine inspires me to write, but that's part of the bribes.



  

And as always:
Most of my ideas are coming from http://erinisawriter.blogspot.ca/2014/03/march-24th-looking-forward.html It's leads to another blog where I found the ideas. My April onward details start with that post.

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Monday, 9 June 2014

Writing Update Monday

May 9

Today is the two month anniversary of me sending away my Query Letter and 20 pages of my manuscript.

I know... I know. This picture has been used already. I don't really have any other update picture. I could show a picture each week of me tapping my fingers impatiently, but to be honest, I only think about it every so often.


Tapping my finger


I'm only impatient when it's on my mind, and luckily, my mind is full of other stuff to keep my busy.

Now that I've moved, I've run out of excuses. I have to edit and write more.

And I will.

Short writing update, but there it is. I've been waiting two months, and need to get back at it. I have a trip coming up to Newfoundland at the end of the month so this may turn into a summer goal. I like writing in summer anyway so maybe I will be more inspired by the time I return from one of the most beautiful places in Canada.

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Friday, 6 June 2014

Inspiration for my Characters

June 6, 2014
Where do you find inspiration for your characters?

First, once again, here is a description of the characters with no mention of inspiration. I'm not going to speak about all of the characters. Just my favourites. (I play favourites). Plus, some characters just 'became', they weren't inspired by anybody but my brain and the people in the story.

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My friend JUST asked me that, kind of. He's reading my novel right now (the unpublished emailed version).  His comments (so far) are below. I like to save proof that people have read my novel (and found it interesting).


The character he was asking about, Lucy, is the main character. I didn't base her on anybody, or really have anybody who inspired me to write her. Because it was my first novel, and I am still getting used to writing my characters, the main character took on a lot of my characteristics. I'm sure she reacted to some things the same as I would have.

The Grandma is partially inspired by my Grandma Burton. Strong, loving, tough, and family was her first priority. The Grandma in the book ended up taking on her own personality, quite different from my own Grandma's.

The younger sister, Kristy, was actually my favourite to write, and she was inspired by the fact that I wanted to write about a smart young female. We see too many young woman portrayed as stupid, ditzy, or mean girls. I wanted to change that. I didn't really use anyone as inspiration, BUT for her book smarts, I did imagine Rory Gilmore a little bit, not in all of her personality or looks, just the striving for perfection in school.

My friend, James, was correct. The character of James was not him. In fact, I know this sounds silly because James (friend) and I speak frequently through email, but James (character) was such a real character to me that I didn't even realise they shared a name. I was inspired by my own perfect boyfriend when I wrote him. Although, they are quite different in many ways.

Last, the best friend, Shauntell. My inspirations were my friends. She's little pieces of many of them. Denise, Karen, Nehal... Every once in a while, she'll say a line that reminds me of one of those three woman.  Once again, the world has enough mean girls. I wanted somebody who was there for her friend, but also honest with her.

The other characters all had inspirations, but these are the ones I wanted to focus on in this post.

And as always:

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Thursday, 5 June 2014

My Writing Space

June 5, 2014

I'm doing two prompts in one again because I find them pretty similar, and I don't think it needs to different posts.

  • Describe (in words or photos) your writing space. What do you like? What would you change?
I've just moved so I'm still working on my writing space. It was pretty easy in the other place. Either the bed or the old couch. 

Here are some options for me.
Sitting on the couch with C across from me.

Someday when we're unpacked and organised, I may use the desk! Although I sit at a desk all day, so probably not.

The big comfy chair. Just need a safer place to put my wine glass. This will probably be one of the winners though.

Writing on my bed. Nice to write in the early mornings with a cup of coffee.

  • Describe your ideal writing space.
On a patio

Outside in the sun

    With this guy next to me.
    In a coffee shop

    And as always:

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Wednesday, 4 June 2014

Inspiring Writers

June 4

Talk about three other writers who inspire you.

First of all, there are many. I'm narrowing down my writers right now to the ones I know personally, and I'm not focusing just on authors, but writers of all types of writings. I also really think it's important to write about people I know. I rave about writers/authors who are strangers all the time.

This gives me a chance to show off about my writing friends. This post is going to take longer than I want to finish because I want to find the right words about each of these woman. The one thing all three of them have in common is they are incredibly intelligent and wonderful people. I hope I can do them justice in this.

Nehal El-Hadi http://nehalelhadi.com/

Not only has she been my biggest supporter through all my years of both writing and not writing (encouraging me to write always), but she's a great writer as well. She's also somebody I'm lucky enough to consider one of my best friends.

Nehal and I once wrote a children's story (meant to be a series) about a bullied purple mosquito named Amos. (Bullied by other insects; not humans). The only other time I've written a children's story was something small I tried for her daughter about a purple wall. (Purple seems like a theme). I don't consider myself good at writing stories for kids, and Nehal and her family are the only ones who will read the ones I do write.

I've seen stories she's written for kids and adults, and work that she's posted online. I loved them. Her writing is engaging, and it's wonderful. She writes in all different forms (fiction, non fiction, ect). She's a wife, a mom of two beautiful babies, and is a PhD candidate, a journalist, a writer, and so much more. She writes about what she knows, what she's experienced, what she's learning, and I love learning that extra bit that I didn't know about her before reading her work.

I'm constantly learning from her, and although I wish we didn't live in separate provinces, I consider myself lucky to have met her. Talking to her inspires me (even if only through What'sApp).

I feel selfish because we've spent too much time talking about my writing, and not enough time about her writing. I think I've possibly just assumed that she knows how wonderful she is, and I am more needy in my writing life? I'm hoping that's changing (my part of it). I need to learn more about the giving part of life and writing, and she's somebody I can learn from.

One other things about Nehal and I: we are EXCELLENT singers. We once made a great plan to stand on a street corner and sing until people paid us to quit.     

Ashleigh Mattern http://ashleighmattern.com/

I met Ashleigh three years ago when I started my job. She worked as a Creative Writer for a year before she left to become a full time freelance writer. It was a brave move for her, but as far as I can tell, what she's always wanted to do. I don't think it was without a few kinks, but she's now comfortably freelancing, and works as a journalist, copywriter, and copy editing.

She is also writing a novel. I will be one of her 'test' readers when she finishes her next draft. She was one of the organisers of the writing retreat I went on so I heard a little bit of what she had been writing. It sounded really good, and I am really looking forward to reading it. I can't wait!

She read my novel (the very first draft) for me, and gave me so much great advice. She was really helpful and encouraging!

She is inspiring in the way she goes for what she wants. She has started her career in writing, and continued it for a while now. It's something I'm not brave enough to do. She's also constantly learning about what she writes about, and constantly trying new things.

I love talking about writing with her, and I can't wait to read her novel. 



Anastasia Kozak http://plaza.ufl.edu/kozak/ 

I asked everybody for permission before I started this, and I haven't heard back from her yet. When I hear back, I will give her name and her website (if the answer is yes). Update: I have got the okay!

I haven't read a lot of A's work. I've read things she has written through her website. I know she loves to write though, and is in school with a focus on writing - also working on a Phd.

We met in 1998 (16 years ago) when we travelled around Canada in Katimavik. During that time, I saw her rebellious streak, her individuality, her kind heart, and her great spunk. 

I remember when we decided to make sure we reminded each other how beautiful the other was in the morning. We helped one another with self esteem, I guess. It's a funny memory to have, and I can't remember how it came about.

We wrote to each other after Katimavik and I loved her letters. They were inspirational, honest, fearless and her writing was beautiful and wonderful. That's actually why I was thinking about her as a writer. While packing, I found a letter she had sent me, and it made me miss her. I'm going to write her a letter this weekend (she lives in Florida), and maybe we can start our correspondence again. It's so much nicer than Facebook and email.

I can't wait until I read more of her work, and I hope I get to soon. She's had quite a life, and her experiences have probably helped shape her writing. 

She's always supportive even from far away, and although we don't speak often, I still remember her as a vibrant woman who wrote and drew in her journal throughout our travels. It's really exciting that she is also perusing a dream in writing. It feels like we have both done a lot of growing up since we met.



I seriously, am so grateful that I have so many inspirations in my life, and that I know writers (with lots of talent) that I can also call my friends. 





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Tuesday, 3 June 2014

Write What you Know? Or Write what you want?

June 3

I'm kind of skipping around on the prompts right now. There is one I'm currently working on, but it's not ready. As I was looking at my choices, this one stood out:

Do you agree with the adage “Write what you know”?

Not really. That's the easy answer.

I think if I'm writing a blog, I had better write about what I know, what I'm experiencing, and even my opinions as long as I can back them up, or express them in a non ass-hat way. If I don't know what I'm talking about, I am basically just spouting out crap. I really don't see the point in that. So yes, while I blog, I won't be talking about the law, about physics, about being a doctor... unless it's clearly a fiction post, and then nobody can stop me from being a mathematician. I write about things I experience and the emotions that I feel. I sometimes psychoanalyse myself, but really don't feel comfortable judging anybody else.

HOWEVER, if you only ever write only what you know, how will you ever learn anything? It's called research. It works. So says FOUR years in University. Thank goodness I learned something.

My novel is about a situation that has never happened to me, and about a topic I've never had to deal with. I wrote most of my novel based on my emotions. "How would I feel if this happened?" It WILL need more research at some point or another. So, yes, I don't need to write about what I know in my FICTION novel, but it's good if I have a general understanding of what I'm writing about.

Most (published) novels have acknowledgements with names of people they asked for help.

As a writer, I'm always learning, and if I chose to just write about what I already know, I wouldn't be teaching anybody anything, I wouldn't be learning anything, and I wouldn't be writing anything that means something. I need to be always learning, even if I'm writing about a past experience.

For instance, I actually don't know anything about the answer to this question except what I'm feeling about it. I am googling right now (after I'm done writing about it) to see what else is out there on the subject. To me, the answer is common sense, but only to myself. Everybody thinks differently. That's why it's so fun to read what others have to say.

Here's what I found: Write what you Like~
                                 You Know More Than You Think!
                                 Two Opinions

There's more. Just Google it.

I think it's important for me also to point out that even if I do know about something, people still see things differently, and even if I do it one way, or write about doing something one way, there are always going to be differing opinions. For the most part.

That's it. That's my opinion.


Fiction... Write What You Want. That's what I did.





And as always:
Most of my ideas are coming from http://erinisawriter.blogspot.ca/2014/03/march-24th-looking-forward.html It's leads to another blog where I found the ideas. My April onward details start with that post.

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Monday, 2 June 2014

JUNE IS HERE (And moving fun).

It's a new month!

I'm going to do this a little different than I have the past few months because I want to focus on my move more than anything else. I'll keep it the same order, but with more information in certain areas, and a LOT more pictures.  I started the monthly update in April, and want to continue on the 1st of each month (or shortly after if it's a weekend). This is April's This is May's

Life: Well, I've been talking about what will be new in my life for quite a while. We've moved out of the basement suite and are now renting a main level in a house. We may buy someday, but it isn't the time right now.

I need to explain why this move is so important, and where I was living before. In October of 2012, I decided to live by myself. My roommate and I had been given notice that the owners were selling the (mouse infested) house, so I decided to find someplace to call my own. Unfortunately, living in this city is expensive, and it's hard to find decent accommodations on my salary as a single woman. I was dating C, but was not planning to move in with him (yet.)

I found myself a basement suite. To be honest though, it was really just a bedroom, living room and bathroom. All the rest was shared, including the kitchen, located upstairs. I hate sharing a kitchen. I always have. However, the price was right, my landlord was nice, and I made the space my own.  Instead of cooking upstairs, I made myself a 'mock kitchen' with a bar fridge, microwave, coffee pot, crockpot, toaster oven and later a grill. Believe me, I did NOT like admitting this to people as a 32 year old. I really was quite efficient in it though. It worked for almost two years. C moved in with me this December, and while the living arrangement was working, we didn't love it. The bedroom was the only place with guaranteed privacy, as the laundry room was located off the living room. We had been looking for a place to buy, but jumped at the chance to find a new place when we were given two months notice because the landlords were moving.

It took us quite a while to find the perfect place to live, and I'm happy I had C looking with me because I am always so concerned that places will not be available the longer we wait.

Here is where we used to live: this is the packing/moving stages.

For two months, we lived with boxes. Our bed, didn't always look like that, by the way, it's just a bad timing picture! The mattress doesn't usually hang out. That table was my kitchen area.

Moving/Cleaning day. The shower was sparkling! And me taking a picture of my pigtails... didn't do a very good job! The couch came with the place.

The move out and clean was efficient. Unfortunately, that wasn't all of our stuff. C has had many of his things in storage for the past year because of his trip home to Ontario. So we were truly merging all of our stuff.

From the basement suite, my car was packed to the brim, his truck was packed full, and my friends brought their truck and trailer... also full.

We had two people helping us move. I'm so grateful because I can't even imagine how much longer the day would have been if we'd done it on our own. My work bff (who helped) did encourage me to get more friends by the time we were done! Haha.
We stopped at a patio for lunch between the move from the old place to the new place. Fish tacos. Nummy.

The new place... gets sun. Gets privacy. Has windows that open. Has a kitchen. And has a Jacuzzi tub. It's also STEPS away from 8th Street (aka restaurants, shopping and more), and 15 minutes from Broadway (AKA, restaurants and shopping). AND only a half hour walk to work every day, so I don't have to drive.

We moved everything into the 'spare' room. I had to go in so I could find toilet paper. I got trapped. The rest was all in the kitchen. MY KITCHEN!! The last load from C's storage, we just set out on the lawn to empty out their truck and trailer. We had a lot of people slowing down, assuming it was a garage sale.

After our helpers left (at around 4), we moved more inside, returned the carpet cleaner and TRIED to get enough energy to do some grocery shopping. How exciting to be able to fill an entire fridge instead of a beer fridge.

 Just a few more pictures. The kitchen, C building our new bed frame (kind of new, was in his storage). Cheers for being done the tough part. My first priority... decorating the fridge, and a book I found of C's. He's a gentleman!
Kitchen before and after. It's small, but BELIEVE ME, that doesn't matter when you've been using a crock pot for a year plus.

 Our living room. Still also a work in progress, but looking much better already. And... WINDOWS!
The bathroom all moved into. And... jet tub. Nice change from just having a shower. My feet and body needed some jets to help out! I was feeling about 100 by the next day.

 The closet in the basement suite was big, BUT hard to get into. Now, I can just put clothes in with no problems, AND colour coordinate them like I want. We also have extra shelves in the bedroom, and a whole other (and larger) closet in the spare room. Love the actual bed frame as well! And the dresser will not be like that for long. It is still in the unpacking mode.
All the extra boxes (mostly books) are in the spare room waiting for us to have more time. I found some magnets for my fridge, decorated the toilet cover, C set up the desk, and we finally have a place to put all of our games!!! Best ever.
And moving two houses into one means he can complain about my five bags full of purses (threatening a garage sale), and I can respond with the threat of putting all his beer glasses in the garage sale. We have A LOT of kitchen stuff now.


Novel: It's been seven weeks since I mailed 20 pages of my baby away. I'm still waiting, and have not had a lot of time to work on anything new, or on editing. Hopefully now that we're moved.



Love: Here it is in a nut shell:
I've told C he can get rid of this shirt now because he's got me.

Seriously though. Things could not be better. We are still the wonderful and adorable couple we've been for a long time. And we're just so happy to be where we are.


This Time Last Year: Hmm.
It looks like I didn't spend a lot of time on Twitter, other than retweeting and sharing other people's writing.

Here's FB:

I lost my last grandparent. My grandma Burton passed away. I spoke at her funeral. It was the third funeral I'd spoken at throughout the years.

That's it. Sorry for all the pictures! I take lots, and like to remember everything.

Also, today (Monday), I had to go to work, but am still in love with the new place, as C is too (as seen below):



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